Lou Paget is a certified AASECT sex educator and grassroots researcher whose quest for accurate, practical information for herself has created a highly successful international seminar and product company with a focus on lifestyle and cultural trends that impact our sexuality, health, and relationships.


She has single-handedly given the arena of sexual education and information a more accessible and honest attitude. Her corporation’s name, Frankly Speaking, Inc., is inspired by an acronym for the principles she values most in sexual education: Freedom, Respect, Accuracy, Non-judgmental, Knowledge


With her trademark calm, fearless intelligence, Paget delivers the core essence of information about intimacy. As an international bestselling author of 5 books, translated into 26 languages, and represented in over 60 countries with over 3 million copies sold, it is clear that global audiences are hungry for Paget’s expertise.

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No Intimacy. What Can I Do?

Hi Lou, I have been with my partner for 8 years. Intimacy was well balanced and succulent the first few ...
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Boyfriend Difficulty Coming During Oral Sex

Question: My boyfriend takes forever to come when I am giving him head. I feel like I must be doing ...
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Is This True Love?

Question I know I really like this person yet not sure if they have what it takes to be my ...
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Female Ejaculation Confusion

Dear Lou; Finished reading your book, Orgasms, How to Have Them, Give Them and Keep them Coming and I am ...
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