Lou Answers
It sounds to me like you are running an opinion poll to validate
what you already know in your heart. I believe you answered
your question in the second statement. You want relationship
and marriage and kids but not with HIM. Your chronological
age may be immaterial to this response but I hear a grass-is-greener-on-the-other-side
comment.
And re: Mr. Before
- has he decided he too wants to be with you in the way
you know you want? Or is he looking for easy sex-with-the-ex
as you were the one who contacted him? Do you feel you can
trust Mr. Before? There is a reason for the idiom Leopards
don't change their spots. However should you wish to run
an opinion poll do so with two or three VERY good friends
who have no vested interest in the results other than your
happiness. Ask them what they see when they see the two
of you together? If you are considering a major commitment
then ask yourself two questions. 1) Can I see myself with
this man 5 years down the road? 2) Am I proud to introduce
this man to my friends?
Your love is a very special gift
be sure you give it to one who is worthy of it.
Warmly,
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