Yes, I have heard of this and when you read the following three reasons you will see that indeed you do not have a 'problem'. Rather, like many women this is merely how you physically need to be positioned to have orgasms occur for you. FYI porn films be damned - their presented positions are sadly great for the camera's angle yet invariably completely hopeless for a woman's enjoyment.

Back to the reasons, starting physiologically - when a woman's legs are closer together there are more of the 'most sensitive bits" in a localized area. She or her partner need not move too far to find the most sensitive area.

Secondly, some women require a form of muscular tension in order to expand their sexual enjoyment and orgasm, and this can only be achieved when they are on their backs with tight thigh contraction. After all your thigh muscles are some of the largest in your body.

Thirdly, and possibly the most influential reason is if this position is the one in which you first experienced and learned to orgasm via masturbation, then as with most people, the way or position you first 'learned' is often one of the easiest and simplest routes to satisfaction

The percentage according to Dr. Santa Maria Cabello, one of the world's foremost researchers in female ejaculation, is that 70% of all women experience ejaculation. Those who have seen and/or experienced it have related to me the fluid 'was clear' to 'milky', and it tasted "buttery" to lightly sweet".

The fluid comes from the para (meaning on the side) uretheral glands. And it is not urine. The ejaculation each woman experiences is very unique. Some women experience it as a result of the arousal with kissing, some with oral sex, some from G-spot stimulation and some from heavy petting. Again it is uniquely personal to each woman.

I talked about female ejaculation in my December letter so for more research-oriented answers, you might like to check that out. (The Archives access is at the bottom of the QOM page.)

Warmly,