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October 2002

 
 
  Question:
  I took your sex class this weekend and it was terrific :) actually, it was taught by another one of your speakers who told us to e-mail you with any questions we have. My question has to do with 69. It's very popular for guys to want to do it, at least in my sex life, but it's really hard for me at least because my tongue is not by the sensitive side of the penis. Other than trying it on your side, do you have any tips??? Out of curiosity, why is it not covered in the course???

  Lou Answers
will tell you what men have told me their reactions are when this has happened to them. If you have been If he is younger, mid- 20's, invariably because they have seen it in adult films and pictures. As noted, porn is not the most accurate source of information. By the time men are 30, they say it is very difficult to concentrate on receiving and giving at the same time and that goes for both partners. It can be a transitional move, look good in a side viewing mirror but to completion, is often difficult because of what I just mentioned. Having said that, there are some couples for whom this is the "be-all, end all" for them, but don't have your enjoyment be dictated by what others experience. We don't all enjoy the same things in a restaurant so why would we sexually?

Side does tend to be the best, with each resting their head on the other's leg but the problems is often there is a difference in height and body length so one is scrunched and the other is stretched out.

Why isn't it covered? It is when people ask, however because it isn't very effective the class is about what works well; so if people ask about it, it is addressed but for most people it is too difficult to do. They lose their concentration and enjoyment. Now your boyfriend may be one of those who can enjoy doing this, after all our brains are our largest sexual organs, but for you, you already know your mouth is not in a great position, yet you know you have many other options

. Warmly,

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