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Medicalization
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The take-a-pill-and-fix-it medicalization and attitude of our society
has long impacted people's intimacy. We just didn't get told about
it. Be sure to ask if any medication you are being given has been
known to create side effects such as: an erectile disorder, decreased
arousal, decreased desire, or has caused people to become anorgasmic
(inability to orgasm). And if so, is there another medication available
that does not. If you have any questions, I can check the13 page handout
that accompanied the AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators
Counselors and Therapists) presentation "Medications That May
Contribute to Sexual Disorders" I received from William Finger
Ph.D., who co-authored it along with Mark. A Slage Pharm.D
I am also hearing of more men who are taking Viagra recreationally.
My gut feel is don't mess with Mother Nature, you are likely to piss
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ANME Adult Novelty Manufacturers
Expo |
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At the recent
ANME show we discovered a couple of new really cute items |
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Tongue Joy. |
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Ever wanted
to have your tongue be a vibrator? Or perhaps your finger or penis?
With this versatile little toy
and its three sizes of very stretchy rings to hold the tiny T shaped
vibrator, you can incorporate gentle very targeted vibration during
manual play, oral stimulation or during intercourse with it held at
the base of the man's shaft. Field researchers are doing their thing
as we speak. Next month their feedback and innovative ideas |
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The Tool Chest. |
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Imagine a
gladiator's leather chest harness but this time the battle's a win-win.
For the woman who loves the sensation of being "filled up"
while her reclining man enjoys the view of his partner, front or back.
In the front facing position, a pillow under his head and he has the
option of performing oral sex.
You can see both items on the Products Page. Just follow the link
to "Products". Then choose "Vibrators" to view
the TongueJoy and "Clear Silicone-like Toys" to view The
Tool Chest.
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Question: |
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Some of my orgasms
feel very different from others. I usually get a great deal
of enjoyment when he goes down on me and that is my quickest
way to come, but if I do come when we are doing things doggy
style, my orgasm feels even more so. Is this normal and is
there a reason for this?
-39 year old married woman, two children, Chicago |
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Lou Answers
First let me start by saying congratulations, you are so normal
it isn't funny. And here are the reasons why they feel differently.
You are actually having two different nerve systems stimulated.
With oral stimulation your husband's actions are concentrating
sensation along the pudendal nerve system. That highly sensitive
nerve system powers the entire vulvar area, made up of the
labia minora and majora (inner and outer lips) the clitoris,
urethra and entry into the vagina. During
rear entry (AKA doggy-style) intercourse, the head of your
husband's penis is stroking the front vaginal wall. Any
position that has strong front wall stimulation would do
the same thing. The nerve systems in this area are the pelvic
and hypogastric. The belly button side of the vaginal wall
is where one concentrates motion to stimulate the G-spot,
but please note the G-spot is not in the vaginal wall it
is above it and as such often requires much firmer pressure
and stimulation. Also it has been noted that women who have
delivered vaginally have a better chance of experiencing
strong G-spot stimulation, as their vaginal barrel is more
flexible from having delivered. Note I did not say looser.
The PC muscle at the entry into the vagina is the determining
factor for tightness and can be toned using Kegel exercises.
In comparing the orgasmic sensations
of a clitoral vs. a G-spot/front vaginal wall orgasm, women
have said the clitoral feels more like a pulling up and
in, while stimulation of the G-spot/front vaginal wall feels
like a broader more all over pushing down and out sensation.
I hope this answers your question. For a more in depth discussion,
I cover this topic extensively in The BIG O .
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any particular subject area you'd like covered next month
please let us know via email at Questions@loupaget.com.
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