Commonly Asked Questions

     
 
 

1. Where does your information come from and is it your personal experience?
"This is what I told my 80 year old Father: 'Dad, my information is born of my wanting to know, not of my experiences." Culturally, people assume that anyone who knows about sex must be doing it a lot. This is a common misconception. If I did 10% of what people think I've done, I'd have time to do nothing else. Information shared in my books and seminars is based on 18 years of study, 10 years of women's/men's sexuality seminars, and 11 years as a volunteer on the ground breaking Cedars-Sinai Aids/HIV Center."

2.Are you a Sex Therapist?
"No. I am an AASECT (American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists) Certified Sex Educator. I provide solutions to those who are willing and interested in advancing their understanding and experiences in sexuality and intimacy. I remind all participants and readers that information I provide is not provided because there is something wrong or that something needs to be fixed. And as a Certified Sex Educator, I provide information based in a foundation of researched data

3.How did all of this get started?
I went looking for the information for myself as I was leaving a relationship. What I wanted was hot, fun, and safe information that REALLY worked. One night, my girlfriend insisted I share what I learned with her friends who wanted to know. From this the seminars were born. That was 10 years ago. The books were born from suggestions from seminar participants

4.What was your motivation to find this out yourself?

My belief is…we are all born of sex and it is one of the most natural things about human beings. I was certain I wasn't the only one who wanted to know more, so I knew the information had to be out there. I quickly scanned the typical sources; adult industry films and picture books didn't give the REAL information I wanted. I wanted to know where people put their hands, their tongues, their toes, and the real details. So I started asking friends what they did that worked. Rationale…if I had my favorites, then so did others. Who better to tell me what worked than someone who knows what worked for them? It is like expanding a buffet of ideas without having to put your mind, your body or your relationship in jeopardy

5.Why are you considered the expert?
The amount of information I have collected and waded through is monumental. In addition to this hard data, I have a pulse on the most current anecdotal information direct from people who have attended the seminars. These resources combined provide me an unparalleled viewpoint on what is actually happening in many spheres of sexuality

6.Who is buying your books? What do people say they get from them?

The demographics of who buys the books are as broad as there are people who are interested in sexuality. There are also groups of people who are progressive, open, willing and interested in advancing their understanding and experiences in sexuality and intimacy. Let me share what readers have told me:
"I never thought I would find a book that would give me what I had been looking for, it is all there."
"Your books are straight forward, and direct while being lady-like, quite a combo."
"You saved my sister's marriage."
"We hold you completely responsible for our beautiful baby girl."
"What you say is often so subtle, and the impact hits long after I've read it."
"Your books gave me the permission to talk to my husband about what I'd like to try, the validation of what I already knew, and then there are the options of what we both can try …it really never ends."


7.You say it's based on the seminars…who goes to your seminars? How often do you do the seminars and where are they held?

The seminar attendees are similar to those who buy the book. The only difference would be there are more women partly because there is more interest in Ladies seminars. The seminars are held approximately every two months in Los Angles and nationally and internationally at least twice a year. Seminars have been held throughout North America, Europe and Australia.

8.What do you do in the Sexuality Seminars?
The confidential seminars are hands-on instructional events with a focus on providing manual and oral techniques that can expand the current sexual repertoire, as well as any discussion direction participants prefer, whether it be positions, current new adult products, G spot stimulation, female ejaculation, multiple orgasms (hers and his) or "Why do they do that?" This is the place as many women and men have said, "Finally a place where I can ask ALL those questions I've been dying to know and couldn't find the info."

9.What does your family think?

My family thinks simply that this is what I do. Actually one of the most rewarding things for me is that in spite of the tough road it took to get here, my family sees me happy and fulfilled and they are very proud of what I have accomplished. My younger sister's response to asking how I got into this is, "She has always been like that, ask her something and she will somehow know the simplest way to tell you how to do it."

10.What is next?

My One hour TV Special on WE Network, MAKING LOVE HAPPEN WITH LOU PAGET which will premiere on Tuesday August 1st, 2006 at 9 p.m. west coast, midnight - east coast. Expanding to different seminar markets, more international marketing opportunities as my books are in 26 different languages, broader based media participation, product development. I'm going to be busy.

11.Where can people get in contact with you?
On my website, www.loupaget.com or via e-mail office@loupaget.com or by calling
310-556-3623 or 1-877-739-7364.

12.Where are the books available?
Any bookstore should carry them nationally and internationally. Website bookstores such as amazon.com, barnesandnoble.com etc. The books are available in 26 languages and 60 different countries.

 
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