I have a great guy I am dating and he wants to get engaged and even though I know I want that I just don't feel ready for commitment and family. I did have the feelings of wanting to commit with my old boyfriend but he ended things a year ago because he cheated on me. I recently called him and now I feel really torn. He knows about my new guy and suggested maybe we need to see if we are still as compatible as before, we always had great sex. I do love my new guy but not enough to commit. Is there any simple way to figure this out?